To be in love is the most beautiful
phase of life. Sometimes, even best of relationships end up in ashes. Life
becomes difficult especially, when you are not the one to call it off. As an
old adage goes ‘Time heals everything’ so a broken heart too. However, to pass
this painful journey is not easy but, as we all know ‘life goes on’ and ‘time
waits for none’. So it is better you become in charge of your life, once again.
Hence, there are ways to bring you life on the right track –
1. Travel – Someone has rightly said
“We travel not to escape life but for life not to escape us”. Thus, take a trip
down to the place you always desired to or simply travel places as a backpacker
and you would be able to see travel as mediation. It would not only rejuvenate
your mind but, the change of environment and interaction with strangers will
make you grow as an individual.
2. Shopping – Who does not like to
deck up well? So how about a makeover? Everyone likes it! Go shopping with your
friends at malls or a street shopping. It works well because at least there is
something that keeps you happy. Moreover, if you are dressed well you would
remain happy and confident. After a break up never lose your confidence that
you were not good for him/ her. Therefore, shop shop till you drop! Anyways, to
party hard you would require all sorts of dresses.
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3. Party – Do not decline offers to
party if you are invited. Invite people over and party hard. Organizing the
party will keep you busy for a while.
4. Gym / Workouts – Do not even
think on sitting on the couch and binging on ice creams or junk food because
the more you consume carbs later, it would get more difficult to burn fat out
of your system. Hence, it is advisable that you go for gym to channelize your
energy and do not sit idle at all. This will help you to avoid thinking about
your ex. If you aren’t fond of gym then you can go for spinning classes or
simply jogging. You never know whom you bump into at the gym so be all geared
up for it.
5. Yoga – Burn your fats and calm
your senses. It will help you to take over your life, once again.
6. Meditation – Meditating will make
you feel peaceful at heart.
7. Go through the Pain – For once,
if you feel like taking it out so do whatever it takes you to hence, cry as
much you want or simply hear all sad songs you wish to but sooner you come over
it the better.
8. Be Helpful – Visit NGO or an
organization that needs help to raise funds for charity purpose. Help them to
win their score and you would win yourself back with it.
9. Be New You – Go and make new
friends maybe, while scuba diving lessons or by joining a book club.
10. Clean the Junk Memories – If you
have any gifts, cards or any sort of memories you must wipe it off from your
home. It will help to see life with fresh perspective.
11. Obsess – Do not get obsessed for
your ex rather figure out peacefully what went wrong and move ahead in life
with a thought ‘ Everything happens for a good reason’.
12. Dating – Do not close yourself
in a shell rather go out on a date and just be yourself. You never know when
you meet that perfect man for you.
13. Free Bird – Let go your
feelings. Do not surrender to it. Let your heart sail and coast itself, where
it wants to.
14. Patience – Be patient and calm
during the course. Being rebellious will not land you anywhere.
15. Read – Read all kinds of books
preferably motivational. It would help to blossom your feelings, once again
towards life.
16. Music – It has an ability to pep
up any mood. Listen to your favorite music to combat stress.
17. Food – Good food will always
lift your spirits up. Eat healthy and fresh to keep your mind alive.
18. Optimistic – Always remember
‘This too shall pass!’
19. Isolation – Don’t be alone.
Surround yourself with people. Their support can help you heal the pain you
going through.
20. Spa – Get a spa package and
pamper yourself at a spa resort. It would help you to get good sleep.
21. Recreational Activities – Go for
bowling, karting, or video games, which will delight you. Avoid sitting idle.
The pain of love can be fruitful.
Just wait for the right time for it!
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